Tuesday, October 25, 2016

A Strange Thing Prayer: Connecting With People

A strange thing happens to Christians as we pray for others, we somehow come to love those we pray for.  I have cried for those I have never met, I have come to love people who I once detested, all through genuine prayer for them.  For it through prayer that we are able to come closer to Him, through true and authentic prayer that we begin to realize that we are coming to the living God who created us, that we are not even worthy to stand in His presence and yet He allows us to come to Him and present prayers to Him.  I think of the story Christ told of the Tax Collector and  the Pharisee found in Luke 18:9-14.  “Then Jesus told this story to some who had great self-confidence and scorned everyone else: “Two men went to the Temple to pray. One was a Pharisee, and the other was a dishonest tax collector. The proud Pharisee stood by himself and prayed this prayer: ‘I thank you, God, that I am not a sinner like everyone else, especially like that tax collector over there! For I never cheat, I don’t sin, I don’t commit adultery, I fast twice a week, and I give you a tenth of my income.’ “But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed. Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow, saying, ‘O God, be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.’ I tell you, this sinner, not the Pharisee, returned home justified before God. For the proud will be humbled, but the humble will be honored.”  Notice how the Tax Collector prayed, he came and before God and was humbled.  He realized that  was  broken and needed God’s forgiveness.

If we allow God to bring us into the center of His will for us, through prayer true and authentic prayer.  It is through this type of prayer God not only brings us to the center of His will, but as we pray to be more like Him, He allows us to begin to love others as He loves them.  I do not pretend to understand how all of this works and I am not ashamed of that, for God is Love.  If God is Love then we too must become love.  I can however say that I know it is true, as I have prayed for those I have never met I have come to have a deep love for them.  The first time this happened to me was over a year ago as my wife and I begin to pray for a child that we had been told we were going to adopt. We both begin to pray for this unborn child, we had agreed with the birth mother on what the name of child would be.  We had our bags packed, we had been promised by our agency that the mother was not going to back out.  As it would turn out she not only backed out but we found out she had been lying to us the entire time.  We were both devastated, we both went through a great amount of pain, a pain we both carry to this day.  I could have easily written this mother off and no one would have blamed me or my wife.  Only one problem I already had a love for her son.  I choose to instead forgive her for the pain she had caused.

I have since continued to pray for both her and her son Josiah, I pray for a mighty work in both their lives.  I pray the same prayer for Josiah I had before he was born.  I believe because of prayer God placed a love in my heart for a person I will most likely never meet while on this earth, He also taught me what it feels like to love someone who is never going show love to me.  He showed me that in the center of His will is love, love for people, the people He created and wants to have a relationship with.  A people that He decided even though they deserved death and condemnation He would create a way for them to come before Him and humble themselves and be saved from their sins.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God did not send his Son into the world to condemn it, but to save it. “There is no judgment awaiting those who trust him. But those who do not trust him have already been judged for not believing in the only Son of God. Their judgment is based on this fact: The light from heaven came into the world, but they loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil. They hate the light because they want to sin in the darkness. They stay away from the light for fear their sins will be exposed and they will be punished. But those who do what is right come to the light gladly, so everyone can see that they are doing what God wants.” (John 3:16-21)

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