We are
getting to a part in Ephesians that we could easily just skip over if we wanted
to stay the same. If we wanted to go the
easy route and just let our relationship with God be a casual thing, but we
don’t want to do that. Paul talks about
how our relationship with Christ does more than change us. Let us take a quick look at what Paul says
here in chapter four starting at verse 17-24; “With
the Lord’s authority let me say this: Live no longer as the ungodly
do, for they are hopelessly confused. Their closed minds are full of darkness;
they are far away from the life of God because they have shut their minds and
hardened their hearts against him. They don’t care anymore about right and
wrong, and they have given themselves over to immoral ways. Their lives are
filled with all kinds of impurity and greed.
But that isn’t what you were taught when you learned about Christ. Since you have heard all about him and have
learned the truth that is in Jesus, throw off your old evil nature and your
former way of life, which is rotten through and through, full of lust and
deception. Instead, there must be a
spiritual renewal of your thoughts and attitudes. You must display a new nature because you are
a new person, created in God’s likeness—righteous, holy, and true.”
Paul
very bluntly says stop listening to what the world is telling you on how you
should live your life. The world is full
of sin so just stop being foolish and trying to figure out how you should live
by buying self-help books, watching Dr.
Phil, or where ever you get advice, just stop.
Why? Because these people do not know God, they have hardened their
hearts. We must come to the
understanding that if we want to grow in God we must put the world behind and live
for God. As Paul puts it we “must put
the new man on and get rid of the old.
The Greek word Paul uses for new means having a different quality or
nature. This means we are no longer the
same, God enters into us and changes us from the inside out. We are to no longer live as we used to, we
are to take on the nature of God. Christ
says that we are to be born again, “I assure you, unless you are born again, you can never see the Kingdom of God.”(John 3:3) Peter tells us the same thing, “For you have
been born again. Your new life did not come from your earthly parents because
the life they gave you will end in death. But this new life will last forever
because it comes from the eternal, living word of God.”(1st Peter 1:23)
We
are to no longer live as we lived before Christ, we are to allow God to change
and recreate us. Paul says if you lived as a thief, stop, if you lived
deceiving others, stop. So how do we
live then? “Instead, be kind to each
other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has
forgiven you.”(Eph 4:32) We are to live
in love with God we must put all hate, all sin behind and live a life that that
no longer puts us in the center but puts God and His love in the center of our
lives. We no longer get mad at people
but instead we love them.