Sunday, December 2, 2012

Are We Truly in Love With Christ? (John 21)


We all love Peter, we love to look and say things like I can’t believe he denied Christ not once but three times, and Christ still loved him.  I would never deny Christ, but what if I told you that I believe you have, in fact I would dare say more times then you may realize it.  Do not worry I include myself in this statement.  Let us take just a moment and think about this for just a moment  in Revelation 19:7 we are the bride of Christ.  “Let us be glad and rejoice and honor him. For the time has come for the wedding feast of the Lamb, and his bride has prepared herself.”(Rev 19:7)  Think about the implications here, when I was engaged to Autumn I didn’t go around and tell other women that I was single, and as far I know Autumn didn’t go around with her ring off.  But how often did or maybe some of you are still struggling with sin in life.  Each time we sin we are denying Christ, denying that we know him.  Let us be glad and rejoice and honor him.  But the Good news is we do not have to live this type of life.  But most people are not really wanting to, they want to continue to live as they have been. But what was the change what happened in Peters life that changed him forever?
If we begin to look at chapter 21 of John we see the disciples fishing, nothing really wrong with that, but as they are coming, they see Christ.  What does Peter do when he realizes that it is Christ on the shore waiting for them?  He jumps out the boat and heads as quickly as possible to get to Him.  Then a while later Christ ask Peter three times do you love me?  I want to just quickly look at these three times, the commentator tells us this. “Three times the Lord asked Peter if Peter loved Him. The first two times, Christ used the word agapaō, signifying a love of commitment, a love of the will. Peter responded with the word phileō, indicating his strong emotion for the Lord. The word suggests warmth, fondness, and friendship.  When Peter acknowledged that he loved Christ, the Lord gave him the task of feeding His lambs and taking care of His sheep. Expressing love for Christ implies accepting a duty to do the work of God and to be faithful. Peter had some difficulty with such faithfulness during Christ’s earthly ministry. As Christ was getting ready to depart, He wanted to elicit a commitment from Peter.  The third time Jesus asked Peter if he loved Him He used the word phileō, indicating strong friendship. Christ had taught that a friend who loves will lay down his life for a friend. Peter, instead, had denied Christ three times. With Peter’s final response, “You know that I love You,” Christ had drawn a commitment from Peter and assured the other disciples of the bond between Himself and Peter. In the process, He demonstrated His complete forgiveness of Peter. With this exchange, the Lord restored Peter to a position of leadership in the ongoing ministry of the gospel.”[1]

But What I really think is important happens at the end of the conversation when Peter looks at John ask about him.  What does Christ tell him, do not worry about him.  I believe that too many times  we are too busy looking behind us and saying what about them?   We get too busy worrying about what others are doing that we forget we are to be taking care of one another, making sure that we are growing in are relationship with Christ.  Think of a husband who is looking behind and saying to his wife, why don’t you do what she does, or look like her.  It’s not good for Him or the marriage.  We need to be looking forward and moving forward in Christ.  Paul told this to the Corinthians, “Remember that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize. You also must run in such a way that you will win.  All athletes practice strict self-control. They do it to win a prize that will fade away, but we do it for an eternal prize. So I run straight to the goal with purpose in every step. I am not like a boxer who misses his punches. I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should. Otherwise, I fear that after preaching to others I myself might be disqualified.”(1st Cor 9:24-26)



[1]Radmacher, E. D. 1999. Nelson's new illustrated Bible commentary. T. Nelson Publishers: Nashville

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